This Vlog by the super successful blogger/vlogger, Louise Pentland, gave me a proper light bulb moment when I watched it. I may not be a UN Ambassador or a best selling author, but it instantly resonated with me. So much so, I felt compelled to write a blog post about it. So (3 weeks later!) here goes.
For years I have downplayed my achievements. It started when I left school at 18 to train to become an Accountant. By 21 I was qualified yet, during that time, if I was asked what I did, I shied away from telling people, preferring to mention my part time job as a swimming teacher, particularly when talking to blokes. I just thought it sounded less yawnsome given the perception attached to my career choice.
Since then, I still feel a sense of almost embarrassment talking about what I do so, ultimately, I play it down: “Well I’m an Accountant but I don’t do accountancy stuff anymore. I work with systems and projects. Bit of a Jack of all trades, master of none really”. I even feel uncomfortable telling people what brand of vehicle franchise I work for so I always keep it generic by saying I work in the motor industry for fear of sounding like I’m bragging. WTF?
So, when I watched this vlog, it hit me. Why do I underplay my achievements? Like Louise, I feel so passionately about gender equality and ensuring young girls know they can do anything they set their hearts on. Yet me? I struggle to even admit what I do for a job and who I work for! Crazy!
So, taking Louise’s lead, it’s time to unapologetically celebrate our achievements. So here are mine – add yours in the comments below for some virtual high fives:
· I was a swimming instructor for 10 years, qualifying when I was 18 years old.
· I can out-eat most grown men;
· I qualified as an Accountant by the age of 21 after passing all 14 exams first time whilst working full time and also part time as a swimming teacher;
· I travelled the world for 7 months, totally self-funded, at the age of 24;
· I am a qualified adventure diver;
· I owned my own apartment by the age of 25;
· I have a sense of smell that can rival any sniffer dog;
· I was a landlady at 26;
· I’ve run 2 half marathons;
· I am Group Systems & Projects Manager for a prestige vehicle dealer group;
· I survived a ruptured ectopic pregnancy and 5 rounds of IVF.
Time to share your achievements in the comments below so we can give you a virtual high five because (in the words of L’Oréal), you’re worth it!
For now my comment is to you Sal…”way to go!” X
An adventure diver? Tell me more, this sounds ace!
I’m a good eater too…maybe it’s our names fault?!
Sounds more glamorous than it is really – basically means I can dive deeper and at night basically 🙂 And eating, OMG, do I love eating. Perhaps the meaning of our name is actually “Lover of all the food”. If it isn’t, it sounds like it clearly should be!
Sorry, only just found the site and what a read, inspirational Sal and has brought a tear to my eye. Take issue with the out-eating men comment, 1/2 portion balti chicken pathia always a bit feeble.
Haha! It’d be a full portion all the way these days 🙂